:sparkles_bisexual: :BlobCat_Kirby: :BlobCat_KindaSus: x_cyanide_x :A_BlobCat_CozyWave: :A_BlobCat_Googly_Party: :sparkles_bisexual: <p>When I was growing up, I remember how much I was infantilised so much esp in terms of not being able to do what neurotypical kids were able to do like go to sleep overs at friends houses, not allowed to go to friends house on my own, not allowed to walk to school on my own, not allow to get a shower on my own (cuz apparently I could not do it right) not allowed to have my own bank account (until I demanded my dad to revoke the ownership of my account to me) and also requiring teaching assistants everywhere and given easy school work (despite being more capable of doing work neurotypicals do AND I HAD TO DEMAND TO TEACHERS THAT I COULD DO SUCH WORK) etc etc</p>
<p>All cuz I was deemed “special needs” aka too incapable of doing things “normal people” can and therefore I wasn’t meant to have a life I have, cuz I was never meant to be independent, due to stigma I’ve faced not cuz of other but by how my own people, supposed “my family” were meant to care for me, yet did far more harm in general.</p>
<p>I remember the bullying I received and being called “retarded” very often and how much it hurt so much, I didn’t even tell my next school, that I had autism cuz I was so ashamed of it due to the trauma I had with it and I remember just wanting to like get rid of it so bad, I was doing anything to get rid of </p>
<p>When I realised this now, and I think about the problematic things I did and wild things I did in the past. It just makes sense. No wonder I was completely out of control, cuz of how people have poorly treated me and I was acting out as a way to gain control of my shitty surroundings and myself.</p>
<p>We need to stop treating people who have disabilities and invisible disabilities as if they aren’t capable of anything, cuz honestly we are far more capable than you think and the more restrictions and discrimination we face, the more trauma and resentment it will bring, which harms future generations too. </p>
<p>And also stop fucking babying us as if we don’t know shit either. </p>
<p>I’m sick and tired of it.</p><br> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/neurodivergent" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#neurodivergent</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/autism" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#autism</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/ADHD" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ADHD</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/invisible%20disabilities" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#invisible-disabilities</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/disability" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#disability</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/disablities" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#disablities</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/discrimination" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#discrimination</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/dyslexia" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dyslexia</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://app.wafrn.net/dashboard/search/dyspraxia" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dyspraxia</a>